“Divorce, is like having open heart surgery, whilst you’re awake,

not really knowing whether all the bits and pieces will be put back

together again.”

When these words were said on a TV show, they really hit home.

What a brilliant analogy. For not only divorce but for all major loss

events.

Thankfully, I’ve never been divorced. Though I know many who

have. I’ve even assisted some to move beyond and create an

even better life.

Divorce is not any easy decision. For either party. It may seem so,

for one partner more than the other.

Though it’s not.

They obviously loved each other once. Sure, maybe not now,

nonetheless they did get married. They may even have children

together.

Both parties can recover from the emotional pain. Eventually

coming to a place where they have a happy and loving

relationship with each other.

How great would that be? Especially for the children?

It’s all about becoming complete with the past. To stop the

reliving, repeating and reprimanding.

Through guided actions steps, you can easily come to love and

gratitude, about your new situation.

It’s a choice. Your choice.

Afterall, we all, have these moments in life where something

changes us.

What perceived negative moments have changed you for the

better?

#beyondloss

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#loveyourlife