Become the person you’ve always wanted to be

A 10-week program for you to H.E.A.L.

It’s about seizing the transformative power of your experiences,
to create a more colourful life that feels rich,
purposeful and true to your deepest self.

Program starts 13th May 2024

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Ready to redefine yourself beyond your divorce but have a million questions about your next move?

Let’s be real:

Understanding your situation and the emotional turmoil you’re navigating post-divorce is crucial.

You‘ve weathered the storm of a challenging divorce, emerging with the resolve to redefine who you are beyond the shadows of the past. It’s brave, but you’re acutely aware that the journey from “we” to “me, myself and I” is fraught with uncertainty and complexity.

Let’s face it:

Transitioning and then living life as a single individual, perhaps as a solo parent, is a daunting task. The echoes of a shared life now present new challenges—navigating day-to-day responsibilities alone, facing the unhappiness of your children, the loss of a home, friendships that may have dwindled and an ex-partner who’s less than cooperative.

It feels like you’re at a crossroads, with a million questions about your next move and not enough answers.

Here lies the missing piece of the puzzle…

You’re standing at the precipice of redefining your identity, yet without a clear roadmap, the path ahead seems overwhelming. You’re not just seeking to move on; you’re aiming to thrive, to build a life that’s authentically yours, with a future that excites you. The small annoyances of everyday life post-divorce can quickly spiral into significant obstacles, making the journey ahead seem more daunting.

But imagine navigating this path with a blueprint in hand—a strategy not just for coping, but for flourishing.

You need a compass:

A guide to help you chart a course through the complexities of rediscovering yourself, managing solo parenting and rebuilding your life on your terms.

This is where our program steps in.

“Being You Beyond Divorce” is not just a course; it’s a transformative journey that recognises the multidimensional aspects of healing post-divorce.

It’s designed for individuals seeking to rediscover themselves, rebuild their lives with intention, and foster a loving and empowering relationship with themselves.

Through a blend of reflective practices, actionable strategies and supportive resources, this program offers a comprehensive roadmap to personal growth, resilience and joy beyond divorce.

It’s an invitation to step into a new chapter of life with confidence, self-awareness and an enriched sense of self-love and purpose.

Buckle up and prepare for a transformative journey to become the person you’ve always wanted to be.

We’re providing you an opportunity to redefine your identity, values and aspirations, in the wake of this significant life change.

This 10-week journey is your blueprint for transforming your life after divorce.

Dive deep into personal growth strategies, mastering self-reinvention, emotional resilience, navigating solo parenting (if applicable), financial independence and creating a fulfilling social life. Discover the secrets to rebuilding your identity, strategic life planning, wellness and self-care practices and much more.

This is more than just a program—it‘s your gateway to a new beginning and a life beyond what you’ve imagined.

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We’re here to help you navigate the tricky stuff:

What steps should I take to rebuild my confidence and self-esteem?

Feeling knocked down by your divorce and unsure how to regain your confidence? We’ll delve into practical, empowering activities and mindset shifts that can help you rebuild your self-esteem and stand strong in your new identity.

What are my options for personal development and learning new skills?”

Ready to reinvent yourself but not sure where to start? We’ll explore opportunities for personal growth, education and skill-building that align with your passions and goals.

How do I balance single parenthood with my growth?

Struggling to find the equilibrium between your own needs and those of your children post-divorce? Let’s explore strategies for effective time management, self-care and ensuring you grow alongside your children in this new chapter.

How do I approach dating with having trust in new relationships?

Feeling uncertain about re-entering the dating world? Let’s craft a confident approach to meeting new people and building healthy, fulfilling relationships that respect your past and embrace your future.

How do I create a fulfilling life that aligns with my true self post-divorce?

Wondering how to rediscover and align your life with your authentic self after divorce? Let’s discuss identifying your core values, passions and goals to craft a life that truly reflects who you are and what you desire moving forward.

Should my focus be on personal growth or rebuilding my social life first?”

Unsure of how to prioritise your post-divorce journey? Let’s explore the best path for you, ensuring each step enriches your life and brings joy and fulfillment.

I need a comprehensive plan for my life post-divorce!

Seeking a roadmap to navigate your new reality? Let’s develop a holistic strategy that covers personal well-being, financial health and future aspirations, ensuring every step moves you towards a life filled with purpose and happiness.

How do I manage my finances effectively after a divorce?

Navigating financial independence post-divorce? Let’s break down budgeting, financial planning and strategies to secure your financial future without overwhelming stress.

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Harmony and Happiness Together.

It’s time to harmonise healing with happiness.
To rebuild your life with intention and joy.
To balance personal well-being with positive outcomes.
And we’re committed to supporting your journey to joy.

Who is this program for:

This program is tailored for individuals navigating the complexities of life post-divorce.
Whether you’re seeking to rediscover your identity, rebuild your confidence,
or establish a new direction in life,
we’re here to guide you through the intricate journey of personal transformation.

We’ll meticulously map out each phase, ensuring you have a clear path forward to your new beginning and ultimate self-renewal.

This program is right for you if you are:

Experiencing these frustrations

Navigating New Realities

Facing the complexities of adjusting to new custody and co-parenting arrangements, coupled with the emotional and logistical challenges of relocating or finding a new home, epitomises the profound lifestyle changes encountered. These shifts demand a re-evaluation of daily routines, living conditions, work schedules or career goals and parenting strategies, all whilst striving to maintain stability and well-being for oneself and any children involved.

Rebuilding Identity and Social Networks:

Divorce often brings a dual struggle of redefining one’s sense of self and navigating the shifting dynamics of social relationships. The challenge of rebuilding self-esteem and identity, whilst concurrently facing the loss of mutual friends and the potential isolation that may follow, underscores the intricate process of healing and finding new grounds for connection and self-assertion.

Emotional Exhaustion:

The ongoing emotional toll of ending a marriage, which can affect mental health.

Feeling these fears

Impact on Children:

Worries about the emotional and psychological impact the divorce may have on your children.

Career Stagnation:

The worry that your personal life upheavals will negatively impact your professional goals and growth.

Financial Ruin:

Concerns over financial security and the ability to maintain a comfortable lifestyle.

Safety and Security:

Fears related to personal safety and the ability to protect yourself and your children independently.

Repeating Mistakes:

The anxiety of entering into another relationship that may end in failure.

Loneliness:

The fear of being alone or unable to find someone who wants a long-term relationship with you.

Seeking these desires

Aspiring for Co-operative Independence:

The dual desire to cultivate a co-operative and positive co-parenting relationship, whilst simultaneously embracing the drive for your independence and the ability to make decisions solo.

Seeking Serenity and Security:

The pursuit of emotional peace and the ability to move beyond past grievances, paired with the deep-seated wish for your children to feel secure, cherished and shielded from the impacts of divorce.

Companionship:

The hope for finding a partner who understands and shares their values and desires.

A Supportive Community:

The wish for a supportive network of friends and family.

Professional Success:

The ambition to achieve or continue career success and growth.

Come and join us if you’re a

New Beginnings Seeker:

You’ve recently finalised your divorce and find yourself at a crossroads, unsure of which direction to take next.
You’re eager to rediscover who you are beyond your previous relationship, ready to embrace change and willing to invest in yourself to build a future that excites you.
This program is your stepping stone to a new chapter filled with personal growth, healing and the discovery of a life aligned with your true self.

Solo Parent Pioneer:

You’re navigating the dual challenge of rebuilding your personal life while managing the responsibilities of solo parenting.
You seek balance, support and strategies to thrive in both your personal development and in creating a stable, joyful environment for your children.
If you’re looking for guidance on how to juggle these roles effectively, fostering resilience and positivity for you and your family, this program offers the tools and community you need.

Purpose-Driven Rebuilder:

Post-divorce, you’ve found yourself questioning what truly brings you joy and fulfillment.
You’re not just looking to move on; you’re looking to move forward with intention, seeking purpose and passion in your next life chapter.
Whether it’s a career change, pursuing new hobbies, or building meaningful relationships, this program is designed to help you identify and achieve your aspirations, laying the foundation for a fulfilling and purposeful future.

How it works:

You watch

Every Monday, you’ll receive fresh training videos designed to navigate the pivotal areas essential for personal growth and healing after divorce. The insights in each video are tailored to your journey of self-discovery and renewal, accompanied by actionable steps you can take immediately to foster progress and empowerment in your new life chapter.

You join

On Thursday’s we’ll bring the learnings to life as we come together for a live online 90 -minute ‘Heartweaver’ Sessions. On these calls, Karen and Lesley will answer your burning questions, add new content and give further guidance and examples on the learnings for each week. For those who can’t make the calls, they will be recorded

You implement

The blend of video trainings and live sessions furnish you with the guidance needed to navigate your ‘Being You’ journey, to shape a future that resonates with your renewed self. We provide continuous access to the video training, allowing you to keep applying the insights and strategies long after the program concludes, ensuring continued growth.

Step inside and take a look around…

What you’ll learn:

Within the program, you’ll discover actionable strategies to expand and evolve your post-divorce life.

Here‘s how we’ll step you through that process:

Module 1:

Your Treasure Trove of Resources:

In this opening chapter of your transformative journey, we lay the foundational stones that will guide your path to personal growth and enlightenment. This critical phase is all about equipping you with a deep understanding of yourself and furnishing you with a collection of valuable tools and resources. These will not only illuminate your unique strengths and passions but also provide practical support for your daily life, enriching your journey as you progress through our subsequent modules.

Our Key Focus this week:

Discovery of Self: How can you embark on a quest to uncover the core elements that define you? In what ways can this exploration help you reconnect with your intrinsic values, interests and joys that may have been neglected or obscured over time?
Building Awareness: How can you, through a series of guided exercises, gain a heightened sense of self-awareness? How will this newfound clarity enable you to recognise patterns in your thoughts and behaviours that may be hindering your growth?
Creating Daily Practices: How can you develop a set of personalised, daily practices aimed at reinforcing your mental and emotional well-being? In what ways are these practices designed to be both simple and transformative, easily integrated into your everyday life to foster sustained growth?
Resource Compilation: How can you curate your own repository of resources, including inspirational readings, mindfulness exercises and reflective prompts? How will this personalised treasure trove serve as a constant source of support and inspiration, guiding you through challenges and moments of doubt?
Holistic Support: How will addressing not just the mind but also the body and spirit introduce techniques to nurture all facets of your being? How can you discover ways to achieve balance and harmony through physical wellness activities and spiritual practices?

This initial module is crafted with the intention of setting a strong and nurturing foundation for your journey. By the end of it, you’ll possess a deeper understanding of yourself, along with a robust toolkit that will empower you to navigate the transformative path ahead with confidence and grace.

Module 2:

Your Journey That Brought You Here.

The journey through loss and grief unveils lessons unparalleled by any other teacher. Yet, many shy away from this path, marked by both love and pain, choosing instead to dwell in avoidance, anger, blame and bitterness over past events.

Facing your history often stirs a mix of emotions and fears, yet it holds the key to unlocking your potential and forging a path of healing and empowerment.

With guidance and support from Karen and Lesley, you’ll embark on a reflective odyssey to confront and reconcile with your past, learning to view your experiences through a lens of compassion, understanding and gratitude.

Do you wish to carry these burdens for the rest of your life?

This module turns the focus inward:

The Power of Self-Reflection: How can you use self-reflection to enhance personal growth, improve emotional intelligence and make better decisions?
The Significance of Embracing and Honouring Your Past Experiences: How can acknowledging and valuing your past experiences shape your journey towards healing and self-discovery?
Leveraging Your Emotions and Intuition: How do you turn your emotions and intuition into powerful tools for healing and navigating forward in life?
Approaching Future Losses with Grace, Ease and Resilience: What strategies can help you face potential future losses with resilience, transforming your experience of grief into opportunities for growth and empowerment?

This module is a deep dive into the transformative potential of confronting and reconciling with your past, setting a foundation for healing and growth.

Module 3:

Receiving Your Lessons

In this continuation of last week’s module, we explore the profound impact adversity has had on your personal growth, recognising that your most challenging experiences can lay the groundwork for significant self-evolution. It’s a journey of seeing the value in these hardships and leveraging the lessons learned to inform your future choices and interactions, transforming obstacles into stepping stones for personal development.

Embark on a reflective journey to uncover the deep wisdom embedded in your life’s stories.

We will introduce techniques for healing, releasing resentment and mastering the art of forgiveness. This process involves not only forgiving others but also, offering that same compassion to yourself. The act of forgiving, including the often-overlooked power of apologising, can lighten your emotional load and pave the way for genuine progress.

Our focal points include:

Transforming Perspectives: How can shifting your viewpoint on life’s events foster personal growth and a sense of gratitude?
Letting Go: How does releasing emotional burdens enhance your sense of freedom and well-being?
Owning Your Actions: How does taking responsibility for your actions aid in your journey towards healing and improved relationships?
Changing Narratives: How can altering your approach to life’s challenges empower you to craft a more fulfilling life path?
Embracing Your Story: How does coming to terms with your experiences serve as a stepping stone to a more contented future?
Valuing Your Strength: How does acknowledging your resilience and support network bolster your confidence and appreciation for your journey?

This module invites you to embrace your past, warts and all, as a catalyst for a brighter, more insightful self, paving the way for a life filled with deeper connections and inner peace.

Module 4:

Your “Mental” Relationship with You:

Explore the intricate connection between your thoughts, beliefs and overall mental well-being. It’s about assisting you to understand how your internal dialogue influences your perception of self and the world around you. This relationship is crucial, as it shapes your responses to life’s challenges, your resilience and your ability to find joy and fulfillment.

We’ll delve into your mental garden:

Awareness: How well do you recognise your thought patterns, especially those that may be limiting or self-critical? Are you planting a mental garden that is full of thriving plants or one of weeds? Understanding your mental habits is the first step towards cultivating a healthier mindset.
Dialogue: What is the nature of the conversations you have with yourself? Are they supportive and uplifting, or do they tend to be negative and defeating? Learning to reframe this internal dialogue can significantly impact your self-esteem and confidence.
Beliefs: What beliefs about yourself have you held onto that might not be true? These could be narratives from your past that no longer serve you. Identifying and challenging these beliefs can open the door to a more empowering self-relationship.
Resilience: How do you mentally cope with setbacks or failures? Building resilience involves practicing self-compassion and viewing challenges as opportunities for growth rather than signs of inadequacy.
Growth Mindset: Do you see yourself as capable of growth and change? Cultivating a growth mindset encourages you to embrace learning and development as a lifelong process, where effort and perseverance lead to mastery and self-improvement.

Fostering a positive mental relationship with yourself is about nurturing a mindset that supports your well-being, champions your growth and celebrates your journey, recognising that your thoughts and beliefs are powerful tools for shaping your reality.

Module 5:

Your “Physical” Relationship with You:

Your “Physical” Relationship with You delves into how you connect with, care for and perceive your body. It’s an exploration of the physical self, encompassing health, movement, nourishment and rest. This relationship is foundational, as it directly impacts your energy levels, mood and overall well-being.

We’ll tune in to listen to the secret language of your body:

Wellness and Care: How do you maintain your physical health through diet, exercise and rest? Understanding and respecting your body’s needs is fundamental to your overall well-being.
Body Perception: How do you view your physical self? Cultivating a positive body image and appreciating your body for what it can do, rather than just how it looks, strengthens your self-esteem.
Self-Care Practices: What routines do you have in place that signal love and respect for your body? Whether it’s through regular physical activity, nourishing meals, or adequate rest, these practices are expressions of self-care.
Listening to Your Body: How attuned are you to your body’s signals? Whether it’s recognising the need for rest or identifying signs of stress, listening to your body is crucial for maintaining balance and health.
Energy and Vitality: How do you energise and rejuvenate your body? Finding activities that boost your physical energy and vitality can enhance your overall quality of life.

This module emphasises the vital role of health, movement and rest in enhancing your overall well-being and self-esteem. At the end you’ll be ready to move forward with a commitment to honour your physical self, listen to and fulfill your body’s needs, whilst celebrating its capabilities. Embrace this journey of physical self-care as a key component of your personal growth and happiness.

Module 6:

Your “Universal” Relationship with You:

Your “Universal” Relationship with You delves into the deep connection you have with the world and the universe at large. It’s about recognising your place within a greater context and understanding how your individual energy contributes to the collective. This relationship highlights the interconnectedness of all things and your role in the tapestry of life.

Time to explore our universal connections:

Connectedness: How do you feel connected to the larger world around you? Whether through nature, spirituality, or community, feeling a part of something greater can provide a sense of purpose and fulfillment.
Impact and Legacy: What mark do you wish to leave on the world? Understanding your values and how you can contribute positively to the world reflects a profound relationship with the universe.
Meaning and Purpose: How do you find meaning in your life? Engaging in activities that align with your values and contribute to a greater good can deepen your sense of purpose.
Mindfulness and Presence: How present are you in your daily interactions with the world? Practicing mindfulness can enhance your appreciation of the moment and your connection to the universe.
Learning and Growth: How do you engage with the world as a lifelong learner? Openness to new experiences and perspectives fosters personal growth and a deeper understanding of the universal tapestry.

This module explores the profound significance of your connection with the universe and your place within it. By the conclusion, you’ll be inspired to embrace your role in the larger scheme of things, recognising how your unique energy contributes to the collective whole. With a newfound understanding of interconnectedness, you’re encouraged to find deeper meaning in your actions and practice mindfulness.

Module 7:

Your “Professional” Relationship with You:

Your “Professional” Relationship with You examines how you perceive and engage with your career and professional identity. It’s about aligning your work with your values, skills and passions, whilst understanding how your professional life contributes to your sense of self and fulfillment.

We’ll explore your professional self on a deeper level :

Career Alignment: Does your work align with your personal values and passions? Finding harmony between your job and your core beliefs can lead to greater job satisfaction and personal fulfillment.
Skill Development: How do you approach personal and professional growth within your career? Commitment to continuous learning and development can enhance your competence and confidence.
Work-Life Balance: How do you balance your professional commitments with your personal life? Establishing boundaries and prioritising self-care are essential for maintaining well-being.
Professional Identity: How does your career shape your identity? Understanding the role your work plays in who you are can help you make more informed career choices that resonate with your true self.
Achievement and Recognition: How do you define and seek recognition for your professional achievements? Setting and achieving meaningful goals contributes to a sense of accomplishment and self-worth.

This module equips you will understand the importance of your work not only supporting you materially but also enriching you at a deeper level. You will seek alignment between your professional life and personal beliefs, fostering not only job satisfaction but profound personal fulfillment. Recognising and celebrating your achievements will become a source of personal pride and confidence.

Module 8:

Your “Financial” Relationship with You:

Your “Financial” Relationship with You centres on how you manage, value and perceive money in relation to your self-worth and life goals. It’s an examination of your financial habits, beliefs and the role money plays in your overall sense of security and freedom. This relationship is crucial for fostering financial well-being, independence and aligning your financial decisions with your personal values and aspirations.

We’ll cultivate your financially free awareness:

Financial Self-Awareness: How well do you understand your financial situation and behaviours? Gaining clarity on your income, expenses, savings and debts is the first step toward financial health.
Values and Spending: Does your spending reflect your core values and priorities? Aligning your financial choices with what truly matters to you can lead to more fulfilling and intentional use of your resources.
Saving and Investing: How do you approach saving for the future and investing in your growth? Cultivating habits of saving and investing wisely supports long-term security and wealth-building.
Financial Goals: What are your short-term and long-term financial goals? Setting clear, achievable financial objectives can motivate you to take action and track progress.
Debt Management: How do you manage and think about debt? Developing a strategy for managing or eliminating debt is key to financial freedom and peace of mind.
Financial Independence: What does financial independence mean to you and how are you working towards it? Striving for financial independence can empower you to make life choices that are not constrained by financial limitations.

Cultivating a healthy financial relationship with yourself involves not only managing your money wisely but also understanding the psychological and emotional aspects of financial decision-making. It’s about making informed choices that support your well-being, align with your life goals and enhance your sense of autonomy and satisfaction.

Module 9:

Designing Your Future

In this module, we reveal the magic behind our secret sauce for architecting and achieving a future that deeply resonates with your dreams and values. This is where you rekindle your aspirations and set goals with an all-encompassing, actionable whole-life strategy. Weaving the art of big dreams with the meticulousness of strategic planning, our secret sauce is designed to make your envisioned future a reality.

Unlocking our secret sauce takes your life strategy to unparalleled heights:

Releasing the Past: How can our secret sauce help you identify and shed limiting habits or patterns?
Sowing New Beginnings: What new behaviours, pursuits, or ambitions should you integrate, as guided by our secret sauce, to align with your dream future?
Amplifying What Works: How can the essence of our secret sauce help you recognise and build upon the positive aspects of your journey?
Steering Through Challenges: In what ways can our secret sauce offer strategies to adeptly identify and navigate personal triggers?
Overcoming Hidden Hurdles: How will our secret sauce assist you in discovering and dismantling self-sabotaging behaviours?
Designing Daily Milestones: What daily practices, inspired by our secret sauce, will ground you in the present while launching you toward your future?

By blending the unique elements of our secret sauce with practical steps, this module equips you to craft the next chapters of your life with renewed hope and precision. This module is a vibrant testament to the potential within, equipped with the wisdom and tactics necessary to face obstacles head-on and achieve the success you deeply desire.

Module 10:

Being Your B.F.F.

This final module is centred on nurturing a deep, compassionate and enduring relationship with yourself. It’s about learning the art of self-compassion, engaging in positive self-dialogue and offering yourself the same level of kindness and empathy that you would extend to a close friend. Embark on a journey to become your own most reliable advocate and source of encouragement, finding genuine happiness in your solitude and approaching life with self-assuredness and elegance.

We’ll delve into methods to:

Revising Your Inner Dialogue: How can you change the way you talk to yourself to ensure your thoughts uplift rather than drain you?
Cultivating Self-Compassion: What practices can help you foster a deeper understanding and forgiveness towards yourself, affirming your intrinsic value and humanity?
Embracing Self-Reliance: How can you boost your confidence in your ability to provide for your emotional and practical needs?
Celebrating Your Company: How can you learn to relish your own company and see solitude as a precious opportunity for growth and introspection?
Building a Foundation of Self-Love: What steps can you take to establish a core of self-love that shapes every choice, connection and ambition, propelling you forward with a heart brimming with self-affection?

Through “Being Your B.F.F.,” you’ll unlock the enduring power of treating yourself with boundless support and love. This module marks the pinnacle of your transformative journey, celebrating the most significant and empowering relationship you’ll ever have—the one with yourself.

Meet Your Heartweaver’s

Karen Chaston

Co-Founder & Life Mentor

Hi, I am Karen Chaston, when Lauren (a client) visited her doctor for a routine check-up, the transformation was immediately noticeable. “What have you been doing? You seem different—taller, radiant and evidently more confident,” her doctor remarked, impressed by the changes. Following this observation, the doctor decided to reduce Lauren’s anti-depressant dosage.

This moment was a significant affirmation for me; it underscored the effectiveness of the Chaston Centre programs, which are designed for embracing life and love daily, advocating for a balanced approach across the Chaston Centre’s four pillars, aimed at helping individuals to navigate and transcend loss, with newfound clarity and reduced anxiety.

Though unfortunately I did not always have this “beyond loss” wisdom…………

My career trajectory was firmly within the corporate sphere, where I juggled the demands of work, family life and the trappings of success, all while coping with the mounting stress that these responsibilities entailed. This relentless pursuit was abruptly interrupted in July 2011 by the devastating loss of my 27-year-old son, Dan, an event that took place tragically at my back door.

In the aftermath of Dan’s funeral, I returned to my role as a Chief Financial Officer, immersing myself in work with even greater intensity and seeking refuge in unhealthy coping mechanisms. This period of my life was marked by a profound disconnect from my own well-being, a pattern that persisted until a transformative wake-up call came in the form of redundancy 15 months later, as a result of a company merger.

This unexpected turn of events offered me a pivotal moment of reflection, leading me to confront the stranger in the mirror and embark on a journey of self-discovery. It was during this time that I felt Dan’s presence and guidance more strongly than ever, inspiring the creation of The Chaston Centre. Together, we developed initiatives that encompass programs, webinars, books, podcasts and TV shows, all designed to share the wisdom gained from my transformation.

At the core of The Chaston Centre’s mission and its programs is my own transformative journey—from a life once marked by routine and neglect of self-care, to becoming a beacon of hope and renewal as an internationally recognised expert on overcoming loss, a bestselling author and a global speaker. Every chapter of my life, with its highs and lows, joys and sorrows, has equipped me with invaluable insights and the wisdom needed to ensure that no one else has to find themselves alone, struggling to rise from the depths of despair and navigate through the aftermath of a devastating loss. My experiences serve as the foundation from which I offer guidance and support, helping you to rebuild a life filled with hope, purpose and vibrancy.

My guiding principle is simple yet profound: “Life is too fleeting to be held captive by any form of loss. Discover the blessings within and design a life that is both lived and loved, each and every day.”

Lesley Benson

Devas Being Divas LIfe Mentor

I’m Lesley Benson, the founder of Devas Being Divas. I’ve always had an intuitive knack for transformation, healing and mysticism. From a young age, my grandmothers noticed my ability to perceive and help others with their everyday challenges, encouraging their friends to consult with me. This early recognition laid the groundwork for my practice as it stands today.

Despite venturing into the conventional healing world of dentistry for a while, my innate ability to understand both the said and the unsaid steered me back towards my true calling as a co-facilitator in helping people create more fulfilling lives.

Life, as I’ve come to learn, doesn’t follow a straight path. It’s filled with unexpected turns and challenges. My own experiences of love, loss and self-discovery have equipped me with a unique set of skills, rituals and daily practices. I now share these tools with others, empowering them to craft the lives they truly desire.

In 2019, I founded Devas to provide a space for both women and men to retreat, reflect and explore unfulfilled desires—the kind of bucket list adventures they never pursued because they lacked companionship. We’ve travelled to Mexico and Europe and though the world has seen significant changes, we’re excited to revisit these destinations, including Spain and the U.K., to continue our journey of self-discovery and to turn those long-held dreams into reality.

Like many, my life has seen incredible highs and devastating lows. I’ve experienced the joys of marriage, the pain of divorce, the challenges of single parenthood and the brink of financial ruin and homelessness. Navigating these hardships while also being there for my child, particularly during the illness and passing of their beloved grandmother, took an immense emotional toll.

The rollercoaster of emotions, the moments of utter despair and the feeling of falling apart were overwhelming. But through it all, I discovered that the pieces I thought were irreparably broken had somehow come together in a way that transformed me.

My guiding principle is to always follow your own North Star. While this may not always mean you are understood by all those around you, my personal journey has led to deep understanding of myself and those close to me. It has led to personal growth, sometimes through perseverance, resilience and sheer tenacity yet it has led to a life I love. Fulfilling relationships and friendships that allow me to be the person I am and the person I wish to be with honesty and integrity.

I look forward to sharing these principles with you to obtain the same in your life.

Our co-creation is about harnessing our collective wisdom, strengths and creativity.

Together we make a bigger difference.

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We have created this ten module program based on every chapter of our lives, with their highs and lows, joys and sorrows.

These are what have equipped us with invaluable insights and the wisdom needed to ensure that no one else has to find themselves alone, struggling to rise from the depths of despair and navigate through the aftermath of a devastating loss.

Our experiences, serve as the foundation from which we offer guidance and support,

helping you to rebuild a life filled with hope, purpose and vibrancy.

This is why we valued this program at $3,770.

We’re here to guide you through the intricate journey of personal transformation as you navigate the complexities of life post-divorce.

Please, reach out if you have any questions at all.

We’re here to help.

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Reputation Recognition

Anna Ritson

After watching one of Karen’s videos, I was convinced and ready for Karen to help me over all the losses that I was going through at the time. I had recently separated from my husband of 13 years and was trying to work out how to deal with my young son in amongst this all. I was also grieving the loss of my mum and my stepfather. My son, was my top priority, keeping him happy was my #goal, so I wanted to start with Karen’s program and see if she could help me work through all that was going on in my life.

She took me on a step by step, I guess challenge in a way, because I did find it very challenging to go through these steps but at the same time it was changing the way I thought about my divorce, my son, my mum and step-dad’s passing. It changed the way that I grieve and how I get through things.

Once I put the work in and you have to kind of do that to get the benefits from what she is guiding you through. It became so easy to understand and now I can move on from for instance I got the loss of my mother and the things that I grew up with around her and the things that were good and bad about our relationship and I got that out of my system.

I also did the same process regarding my ex-husband.

I guess you could say, that knowing now how to go through the process of any form of loss that may come into your life, I can get through anything, just by following the steps that Karen has given me. So, I just can’t thank her enough. I think anyone should give it a go because it really is something that will change your life and for the better.

So best of luck everybody and please get in touch with Karen.

She’s wonderful thank you.

~ Anna

PS: My son is growing, happy and thriving. We have a very close relationship and I love the man he is becoming.

Michelle Shanks

Karen, a friend of a friend, instantly clicked with me, when we had met a few years back.

So, when I found myself sleeping on my 21-year-old son’s couch due to my husband changing the locks and freezing most of my financial assets, my friend suggested I reach out to Karen.

I am so grateful that I took her advice.

Karen’s program has been an incredible journey for me. I am genuinely excited about what lies ahead as I continue through this process.

Through Karen’s guidance, I’ve gained profound insights into myself, understanding grief and discovering the silver lining in all that has transpired in my life.

Unlike my experience with my long-standing therapist, Karen’s program has provided me with a holistic perspective on my life and helped me recognise the less-than-ideal decisions that led me to where I am today.

I am truly thankful that I made the decision to invest in myself and embark on this program.

It has breathed new life into me, allowing me to reflect on the events of my 50 years of living and truly understand what has been affecting me. This program has propelled me into a new phase of my life, and for that,

I am immensely grateful.

~ Michelle Shanks

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A new way to look at things, epic training videos, live time to ask our Heartweaver mentors your questions and 12-months access – it’s pretty amazing.

10 Weeks of Easy to Follow Training Videos

These super practical videos will walk you step-by-step through how to build a profitable and sustainable business.

You’ll receive fresh training videos each Monday.

These are carefully crafted to give you everything you need and nothing you don’t. You’ll feel fully supported to grow your product business without the overwhelm.

11 Weekly Live Calls with Karen & Lesley

This is an interactive program, one we’re we bring the teaching to life every week in our online live sessions. These sessions include live teachings, Q&A, implementation exercises, accountability and so much more.

Stay on your toes, as these fast-moving sessions will help you apply the program content directly into your life in real-time.

These calls are recorded with a replay available.

Weekly Templates and Worksheets

Access a swag of downloadable resources and gems (tools) ready to implement straight into your life. These include all the tools you require to create the life of your desire and more.

Unlimited Access to Program Content

All content is available to you for an unlimited time period, so that you can revisit and implement the program material at the time that best suits you. This will allow you to implement the learnings as you grow.

Your Investment

You’re just one decision away from profoundly transforming your life after divorce.

Program begins 13th May 2024

Payment Plan

3 x $1,375

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We have created this ten module program based on every chapter of our lives, with their highs and lows, joys and sorrows.

Our experiences, serve as the foundation from which we offer guidance and support,

helping you to rebuild a life filled with hope, purpose and vibrancy.

This is why we valued this program at $3,770.

We’re here to guide you through the intricate journey of personal transformation as you navigate the complexities of life post-divorce.

Please, reach out if you have any questions at all.

We’re here to help.

FAQ’s

How much time do I need to commit each week?

Allocating 2 hours each week to the program will allow you to move through the content and attend the live sessions.

Each Monday you’ll receive access to 3 x 10-15 minute videos that cover the lessons for each week.

Then there will be a 90-minute live calls on Thursday to attend with an opportunity for Q&A and additional learning.

Of course, you will need additional time to implement the learnings - which you can do in your own time.

When are the live calls?

Live calls will be held early Thursday evening.

They will be recorded so no problem if you miss one, you can grab the replay shortly after it finishes.

How do I get access to the education materials?

Access to the course materials is via a personalised online website portal.

Here you’ll access video trainings, audio recordings and PDF workbook downloads.

We’ve been careful to leave no stone unturned. The portal is Mac, PC and tablet friendly.

The program will assist you to remember that you came together through love, why not separate with love.