We did it. Congratulations for being here. For living through one of the most unusual and unexpected year’s ever. 2021 will be your year. The year that you get to create what you are focused on.

Have you created your focus word for 2021?

For me, my chosen 2021 focus word is LOVING!

As I’m a great believer that it is up to us to be the change we would like to see in the world, “Loving” seemed to be my most logical word for 2021. More love for ourselves, our family, our friends, pets, wildlife, colleagues, neighbours, communities, all countries and mother earth. Yes, that is my focus for 2021. To be more loving, to me and in all that I do.

During December I started a new nightly practise…….Just as I’m about to go to sleep, I close my eyes and visualise the whole of earth in my hands.

As we are all energetically connected, I then thank everyone for being here and for my day. I send love to each and every person who have chosen to be here on our amazing planet at this time. I send them love and blessings. Wishes that soon, their Hopes, Dreams and Aspirations will be fulfilled. I then send them healing energy, so that they may be able to find the love and wisdom in all that has happened in their life.

Then, as every single cell in my body is tingling with that loving energy, I fall asleep. I have never slept better since starting this practice. I feel it’s a great way to start spreading more love in the world. Now, I understand that for many, reading this, jumping from Grief and Suffering to Love may be a big ask.

It’s literally from the bottom of the Vibrational Emotional Scale to the top.

To be honest It’s impossible.

There is only one way to go from the bottom to the top, i.e. step by step. Whilst you may not have to experience each emotion on each step, in order to step up to the next one, you do have to take one step at a time.

A Surprise Realisation

Recently I saw an interview with Marlo Thomas. Do you remember Marlo she starred as That Girl? A 1966-71 American sitcom. In 1980, in her early 40’s, she married Phil Donahue (American talk-show host). She wassharing her thoughts about what’s required for a long and loving marriage. She mentioned that initially she had no desire to be married. Mainly because from the outside, it appeared to be 1.5 people in most marriages. It was like one person gave away half of themselves in order to support the other person’s hopes, dreams and aspirations.

This comment really hit home with me. Not because that was the case in my marriage though more because 95% of the people who have gone through my Beyond Loss process, have come to the realisation that whilst the tragic loss event that had brought them to me was huge, the greater loss was that during that relationship, they had lost their identity.

Something they had not been aware of, prior to doing the process. Though it does make sense when you consider some of the things people say in regard to loss: “They were my life.” “I’ll never get over losing them.” “I don’t know who I am without them.” The tragic thing is that many may never live a life, that is true to who they are. One where they are doing all the things they love to do. The things that light them up. The things that bring them joy, love and fulfillment.

Does this sound like you? Have you deferred or given up on your Hopes, Dreams and Aspirations in order to support another?

And now you are lost and not sure what your next step will be? You don’t know how to find the best path back to you?

Well, I have some good news for you.

I’m in the process of putting my finishing touches to a short course (45 days) that with assist you to Revitalise Your Life.

Revitalise is such an amazing word. It means to “imbue with new life and vitality.”

Imbue: means “to inspire or diffuse with a feeling or quality.”

Though when you break down the word “Revitalise” (which by now you have probably realised it’s something I love to do).

Re: means “about, concerning, regarding” and Vitalise: “Give strength and energy to.”

So, my extended Revitalise means:

In regards to giving you strength and energy to inspire a new life, diffused with vitality.”

Sounds like a perfect way to ensure that 2021, is the year your “Focus Word” will come into fruition..

Next week, I’ll share more details on how “Revitalise Your Life” is the perfect tool to provide the clarity, to assist you to move up the vibrational scale towards love, joy and fulfillment.

With that thought, I will say farewell for this week. Reach out if you have any questions or require assistance with this.

Make every day Meaningful Memorable and Magical.

Stay well and always remember that there is great love here for you.

With Love and Gratitude